The Culture Mom» Hillary Clinton http://www.theculturemom.com For moms who aren't ready to trade sushi for hot dogs. Mon, 01 Jul 2013 00:29:50 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.2 Inspiration Found at Daily Beast’s Women in the World: The Lost Orphans /inspiration-found-at-daily-beasts-women-in-the-world-the-lost-orphans/ /inspiration-found-at-daily-beasts-women-in-the-world-the-lost-orphans/#comments Sat, 06 Apr 2013 13:14:29 +0000 CultureMom /?p=4918 women in the world

I feel lucky.  I’ve spent the last two electric days mesmerized by the likes of the most incredible women in the world at Daily Beast’s Women in the World conference in NYC at Lincoln Center.  I listened to the Honorable Hillary Clinton motivate the audience to get out there and fight for women’s rights on a grassroots level, Meryl Streep salute her idol Irish feminist Inez McCormack, Angelina Jolie salute Malala who loved wearing a pink dress and said “All I want is an education and I am afraid of no one” and got shot by the Taliban in the head, Tom Hanks salute the beloved writer Nora Ephron and heard from so many amazing women from around the world talk about one thing: WOMEN. From the rape situation in India to the lack of STEM education for girls around the world, the summit covered everything and left no stones unturned.  There was bad news (about the rise of sex trafficking and how bad things are for women in countries like Egpyt, Syria, India, Africa and Libya), there was good news (like listening to the story of the founder of Spanx’s career and hearing stories about young Mothers of Invention).  It was motivating, inspiring, mouth dropping. I came home feeling complete, like I have a mission.

The Women in the World Summit is centered on vivid journalistic storytelling, featuring inspiring women and men from diverse cultures and backgrounds. From CEOs and world leaders to artists, activists and firebrand dissidents, Women in the World tells the stories of the courageous and intelligent women who are battling the status quo in their countries, picking up the pieces in the aftermath of war and shattering glass ceilings in every sector.  Hosted by Tina Brown, editor-in-chief of Newsweek & The Daily Beast, the Women in the World Summit brings together leaders and activists from around the globe every year to address the most urgent challenges facing women and girls. Summit participants also included Dr. Hawa Abdi, Christiane Amanpour, Humaira Bachal, Chelsea Clinton, Diane von Furstenberg and Oprah Winfrey.

I will write more about the summit in the days to come as I heard countless stories that need to be retold.  Right now I want to write about one story in particular.

I was invited by one of the sponsors, Liberty Mutual, as part of their Responsibility Project (www.TheResponsibilityProject.com), created in 2008, a program which uses entertaining content to create a forum for people to discuss personal acts of responsibility. Through short films and online content, The Responsibility Project is a catalyst for examining the decisions that confront people trying to “do the right thing.”

This year their they hosted a session on International and Special Needs Adoption.  The panel featured a conversation with 18-year-old Michaela DePrince, a soloist with the Dance Theatre of Harlem. Born amidst the chaos of civil war in Sierra Leone, Michaela was orphaned at four years old and ostracized by the community because of her vitiligo, a condition that causes depigmentation of the skin. Joined by her adoptive-mother, Elaine DePrince, who after losing three children to hemophilia, was inspired by one of her five sons to help children in war-torn areas of Africa. Elaine and her husband, Charles, went on to adopt six girls from the continent, including Michaela and her “sister”.  They were not related, but were adopted from the same orphanage where she was mistreated for her skin condition. “They called me ‘the devil’s child.’ I would always get the last serving of food, the last choice of toys and clothes,” she said. Watch this video of Michaela speaking about her life here.

On their first night together, Elaine found Michaela going through her luggage and wondered what she was looking for.  Ballet shoes, of course. “She thought all American women danced on their toes,” her mother said.

There was a genuine love between the two and Elaine emphasized the gift of being able to adopt.  She said, “I don’t love my adopted children any less than my adopted children.”  She said that the 3 ingredients of making a good adoptive parent are: Love, realism and encouragement. I’ll apply these three to my own parenting style.

We were blessed with a dance performance by Michaela. It was like watching an angel, particularly after hearing about what she’d been through.

Rounding out the panel discussion was Dr. Jane Aronson, founder and CEO of Worldwide Orphans, a nonprofit organization that provides direct services to orphaned children globally. Worldwide Orphans has reached more than 35,000 orphans, vulnerable children and those who care for them through health and education programs.  She kicked off the session telling us that there are 153 million orphans around the globe and that each year millions of girls don’t have a home.  As my heart break, she launched into a short monologue about the problem:

Children lie languishing in their cribs. Never held.  Spoken to as they are fed.  No ability how to self-regulate.  As they reach for crib bars, they are in prison.  In dark rocking back and forth.  So they are alive.

And we must help. the first step involves taking a census of kids who are on the street, involved in trafficking and living in refugee camps.Dr. Aronson said the best way to help advocate for adoptees is to volunteer or donate to help kids who are in agencies or institutions.

Disclosure: I was a guest of Liberty Mutual at the Summit but all opinions are my own.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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A Message from Women in the World: Be Fearless, Committed and Audacious /message-women-world-fearless-committed-audacious/ /message-women-world-fearless-committed-audacious/#comments Mon, 12 Mar 2012 04:26:59 +0000 CultureMom /?p=3443 Liberty Mutual Responsibility ProjectI was lucky and privileged this past weekend to be contacted by Liberty Mutual Insurance, a sponsor of the third annual Women in the World summit, to attend the summit as their guest.  Hosted by Tina Brown, editor in chief of Newsweek & The Daily Beast, the summit brings together women leaders and activists from around the globe to address the most urgent challenges facing women and girls.  I was there to catch the premiere of one their films about a woman who embraces responsibility and impacts change, and I also got an all access pass to attend the conference.  The day was life-changing.

The film “Right to Play,” featuring U.S. Olympic Gold Medalist sprinter Allyson Felix, brings Felix’s work with the nonprofit organization Right to Play to life. It shares Felix’s experiences with Right to Play, a nonprofit that provides opportunities for children’s development in the United States and around the world through the creation and facilitation of recreational activities. Felix, a track and field sprinter, is an athlete ambassador who brings her energy, dedication and passion to program visits across the globe. She also organizes and participates in fundraising events while spreading the word about the organization.

The Responsibility Project

I was completely awe-struck and inspired by Felix, as you can imagine, and was honored to be representing Liberty Mutual and The Responsibility Project at this prestigious summit.  The Responsibility Project, created by Liberty Mutual, is an organic evolution of the company’s advertising campaign that has showcased personal acts of responsibility and daily examples of ordinary people making the decision to do considerate things for strangers.  All very inspiring.

The Women in the World summit is centered on vivid journalistic storytelling, featuring inspiring women and men from diverse cultures and backgrounds. From CEOs and world leaders to artists, activists and firebrand dissidents, Women in the World tells the stories of the courageous and intelligent women who are battling the status quo in their countries, picking up the pieces in the aftermath of war and shattering glass ceilings in every sector. The line-up was unbelievable on print and even more inspiring in person.

From the minute I arrived at Lincoln Center, my head was spinning as I could tell I was surrounded by other aware and interested women from around the world.  I sat and listened carefully to inspiring stories of courage, dedication and passion. There was Molly Melching, the U.S.-born founder of the Tostan organization, who has lived in Senegal for more nearly 40 years, working to stop female genital mutilation. I heard Liberian peace activist Leymah Gbowee say it’s time for American women to stop being polite. “We have to be our own Gandhis, our own kings, our own Mandelas,” she said, referring to the recent uproar over contraception and abortion. “Why are these women not angry and beating men left and right?” Chelsea Clinton spoke with rising feminist stars about how they’re using social media to empower girls. “I sometimes talk about naming my kids after social media,” Noorjahan Akbar joked, speaking about the organization she founded in Afghanistan, Young Women for Change. Kal Walla, the amazing out-spoken president of the People’s Party of Cameroon was unforgiving when it came to strides made by women in politics—both in Africa and elsewhere—in a panel about women world leaders. “We don’t have critical mass,” she told moderator Andrea Mitchell. “We need to be Sweden, Norway, Denmark needs to be the norm. We cannot accept that having 19 percent of women in Congress is OK.” Sarah Brown, Dr. Ida Betty Odinga and Shelly Esque took the stage to explain how they are working to help achieve one of the United Nations’ Millennium Development goals: universal primary education. Brown works with Dr. Odinga, wife of the Kenya’s current prime minister, to keep girls from Kenya and other developing countries in school and away from childhood marriages—a cultural obligation that plagues many young girls. “The truth of the matter is, if that girl is in school, she’s not out there married or facing any of these things that might come her way,” such as genital mutilation or a pregnancy for which her young body is ill-equipped.

Women in the World

And did I mention Mery Streep?    She introduced Hillary Clinton with conviction and love  by noting a shared history between them. Both were raised in middle-class families by bighearted mothers. Both went to public schools and onto prestigious all-women colleges. Both went to Yale. But while Streep was a cheerleader, Clinton was the president of the student government, Streep joked. “And there, the two paths in the woods diverged.”  She said that “she’s just been busy working. Doing it. Making those words—‘Women’s rights are human rights’—into something every leader in every country now knows are a lynchpin of American policy.” And then she held up her Oscar and said, “I am an actress. And she is the real deal. This [the Oscar] is what you get when you play a world leader. But if you want a real world leader, and you’re really, really, lucky, this [Clinton] is what you get!”

As for Hillary, she truly is the real deal.  She called for all of us to be “fearless … committed … and audacious.” Those words described every single woman we heard from at the conference, including Allyson Felix, and I will never forget her words until I, too, can make a difference in my lifetime.

Like one of my heroes, Shelby Knox said: “The Internet is how we cut through the noise. It’s how we organize to tell our stories.” And perhaps that is how I will make my mark.

Disclosure: Liberty Mutual did sponsor my attendance at Women in the World, but all opinions expressed are my own.

 

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